By being able to disconnect from our inherent entitlements, we can more fully appreciate what we have, and hopefully, gain a sense of contentment rather than entitlement.
In simple terms, one aspect of entitlement means that someone believes they deserve something without earning it or doing any work towards it. A simple Google search will immediately point the finger at the “younger generation.”
Regardless of where you’re at, you’re going to run into some entitled people, possibly yourself, who think the world revolves around them. This narcissistic trait can be extremely aggravating and it can actually ruin relationships – and your finances!
They often have unreasonable expectations (me) and tend to get upset when things don’t go their way (ugh – me again). This type of feeling is often a result of things like deep-seated insecurity, but it could be so much more.
We all know the other guys or girls on the squad that have the lowest recap, the fewest reports written, and the ones that hide all shift. But when your squad is recognized for some type of achievement, they’re always there to be part of the pictures and accolades.
Some people refer to this as a “false sense of entitlement.” This often results from parents that give their children everything they want without making them earn it.
The opposite of entitlement is humility and a sense of contentment. While it’s not always the case, in my experience I have seen that people who grew up poor tend to be less entitled than those who grew up in wealthy families.
With that being the case, here are 5 things you can do in order to work through it. 1. Identify The Behavior2. Help Change Their Wording3. Set Limits4. Treat Everyone Equally5. Don’t Push Yourself too Hard
these might not work and you might need to take more extreme measures. Regardless of the situation, it’s important to do what you can in order to facilitate change. 1. Set Expectations2. Don’t Fight3. Say No4. Don’t Give In5. Take Some Time Away