Many people have differing opinions on renting or owning their place of residence. In reality, most people have an opinion based on the specific circumstances they have lived through. When I was much younger, I vowed to never rent because I felt it was a waste of money. Why would I pay off another person’s mortgage when I could get a loan myself? Let me give you a little insight as to how that viewpoint punched me right in the face.
My Dumb Mistakes Make Me An Expert!
It was 2004, I was 21 years old, and I had just landed a pretty good career. Compared to my past job of waiting tables, this new career greatly increased my income. I was living with my parents at the time and they were charging me minimal rent. I wanted to move out and get my own place as you can imagine, but I didn’t know where to look. I did know one thing – I wasn’t going to rent an apartment, I was going to get a loan and buy a home.
My earlier viewpoint was that apartments and rentals were a waste of money. Why would I help pay off another person’s mortgage? I was no fool – or so I thought. If you remember the housing prices in 2004-2005, you remember how incredibly inflated they were. I found I was not able to buy the type of home I wanted because everything was so expensive. I could not get pre-approved for the amount needed to buy a nice home. Rather than giving up and renting something cheaper, I took my pre-approval letter and worked with my realtor to find the nicest thing I could afford.
If you have been through the home buying process, you understand that banks (at least 15 years ago) would pre-approve you for amounts much higher than any one person could possibly afford. My 21-year-old self didn’t understand that and there I stood with a letter saying how much money someone was willing to give me.
After looking around for a relatively short amount of time, I fell in love with a 2 bed, 1 bath condo. I had to have it and it was right at the top of my pre-approval amount. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the money to put the 20% down for a conventional loan so I did the next “best” thing. I got an 80-20 loan with a 5 year ARM interest only loan. I paid 80% of the total purchase price with one bank loan and the other 20% was another bank loan to give me the down payment. For 5 years, I would be locked into a low-interest rate which made my monthly payment affordable. After 5 years, the interest rate would change depending on the state of the market.
As I type this I want to punch myself in the face. I was paying only interest on my loans and nothing on the principle. What in the world was I thinking? I was 21 and very dumb – and definitely not thinking what could happen after the 5 years was up. What a moron I was (and sometimes still am!). Well, as you can imagine, after 5 years my luck ran out and my payment skyrocketed. I was unable to pay the mortgage and was left with an embarrassing stain on my credit for the next 7 years.
What Should I Have Done?
If I could tell my 21-year-old self anything about this process, I would tell him to use some common sense and stop relying on emotion during purchases. This would have been the best process for me:
- Stay at my parents as long as I can until they kick me out and continue to stockpile as much cash as I can for a large down payment on a house.
- If I couldn’t take living with my parents anymore, find a place to rent with a reasonable lease that would allow me to stockpile cash for a large down payment on a house – or pay cash for the house!
I went out into the world thinking that renting was a stupid idea. Turns out I rented my small condo for 5 years and then left with a black mark on my credit. If I had rented a home or apartment, chances are I would have been able to find something much bigger than my condo for much less than I was paying each month. This would have allowed me to save up at least 20% to avoid paying extra due to the private mortgage insurance.
So Is Renting A Waste Of Money?
It depends. If you do not have a substantial amount of cash saved up to make a significant down payment – renting for a few years is the smarter move. If you want a home and have a significant amount of cash saved up, you can either purchase a home or continue to save until you can pay for it in cash! Yes, it is possible to pay for a home in cash without being a millionaire. It takes persistence and patience but it can be done. I unfortunately did not start out with a good financial choice which has hurt me many years after.
Even after my dumb mistake, here I am now 35 years old and I’m about 2 years away from paying my current home off. That will be quite the celebratory blog post I assure you!
Are you a financial expert because you have made mistakes and learned from them? Or are you in the process of becoming a subject matter expert? Either way, I assure you it is possible to get out of your mess and to improve your current situation.
Before you purchase that home, please check out my related articles. Purchasing a home with debt is a bad idea. Get that debt paid off first before you go into further debt with a home loan! Budget Isn’t A Bad Word, and Simple Steps To Start Your Debt Free Life!
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